Single mothers contribute to the problem by putting their children against the father. Simply because the father is with someone else, or because you are not on good terms is no reason to hold the child against their father.
In my opinion it is down right petty and serious issues begin to manifest because of the mother is being petty.
This opens the door to division, with in the black family, I’ll explain from my views how this works and why the system loves this. First wel fare, then child support, then jail. These three systems were installed from the beginning.
Removing the black man from the house hold is the whole point. This is all they care about. Is this kind of division’s with the black family and forcing the mother become independent to the point The ideation of her not needing a man because mentally she’s brain washed a programmed by the system.
I can do It on my own I don’t need a man. And their children grow up with sexual orientation issues,gender issues join gangs,sell drugs, end up in prison etc that child who is being raised by a single mother will lack emotionally and mentally From not having his dad in his life or a male figure in his life someone he/she can look up to as a father. Broken homes with no male influence is a destroyed home.
It has been proven that with out leadership from the black man in the household a lot of children turn out dysfunctional. Instead of letting my post offend you why not look at it from another prospective and my blog is not for people with sensitivity, toward someone else’s views or the way someone thinks, we can agree to disagree without being petty about adult discussions, instead let’s discuss things and fix the issues we have within our households in our community.
Ladies you cannot blame the black man for every thing, if you’re loud, picking fights,brining up things you claimed to have forgiven him for and the minute you have a disagreement you are doing some of these things, provoking and encouraging the problem. He hits you, you call the police he ends up in jail and you on section 8 And wel fare and your child is with is without a father. But the big part of this is caused by you and you’re desire to control.
If there’s no father then their is no guidance if there’s no guidance the is no direction simple.
As a black woman I can see how this is effecting our community. From the acceptance of homosexuality that seed was planted now look at what’s it’s done to the youth. And this issue is being ignored and the trend continues to spread and destroy because it has been accepted.
As a nation we need to procreate from within we do not need any further divisions.